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my bf is 10 years older than me so i do face a fair amount of criticism from others
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    10 years is fine lol if you’re both adults. It’s even more fine if you don’t look prepubescent, but regardless lol We can’t be going crazy with this purity spiraling. He’s older than you, not younger - he can probably provide better at this point in his life.
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MrsNopeIn general I agree about the dad and family vetting but I am not sure as a society in general its the best thing overall. Too many boomers have the wrong sense of what love and marriage look like unfortunately. But hopefully we get back to it. I met my husband young. My dad was a super good man.
Jeepers lol boomers.. Yeah I remember telling my father when I was about 12, that I’d like to get married by 26 and have children. And he scoffed, disbelieving that I’d be able to wait that long. TBH, they’re not responsible for my actions, but that kind of took the fire out of that goal. I trusted my parents. They lead me astray. Again, they’re not responsible for my decisions and actions and all, but bruh lol try to help a little? lol
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Limsy .This only works if you come from a healthy household 🙃
Yes of course. It’s not about perfection. It’s about knowing what it even looks like. If your father can’t do it because XYZ like he’s a criminal or dead or something, then an uncle, or grandfather, or a friend’s father, etc. Like, how can anything be good if we don’t even have standards to work towards? 🙏🏻
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    Don't think I ever knew an uncle, grandfather or friends father that could be anywhere near standards 😂
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      I get it. We do what we can. All I can do is try to stick to the traditions and make them apply to my situation as best I can.
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    too old, i guess and my dad made a lot of terrible assumptions. my dad has been historically neglectful, has abandoned me before, and didn't really fulfill any fatherly duties
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    My bfs father was very well off and my bf had this whole perception that people are out to get and harm you if they find out
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So when my bf rolls up in a torn up jumper and no car and says to my dad yeah we're just gonna fly over to Spain for fun, and he doesn't have proper 9-5 work hours...
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Except at the time I was already in a circle of friends from places like Eton and I was used to people acting like that, whereas my dad's been unemployed/a foreign labourer for his whole life and they live in squalor and I slept on a couch as a kid, different views come to mind
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    I kind of understand both sides here haha Has he at least taken back his sour attitude since?
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      Ah, I don't know, my parents are weird, I only talk to them a few times a year. Been 8 years since they met my husband
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The pure terror and anxiety you feel for a half a second when you clean your baby's diaper after eating beets that day
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