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Hello bro, my girlfriend and I are always arguing because she is not happy that I don’t gamble. She’s always complaining, comparing me to her ex. She said the guy used to stake bet and he was rich, he used to give her stuff and that I have chosen to stay poor simply because I’m scared to take risks, so I’m not man enough. She will even send me odds she took from her male friends and send to me and insist I stake them. I don’t gamble, it’s not in my blood. I believe working for what I want is the best way out of my situation, but she thinks betting is another way because her ex used to do that and he was making and giving her money and gifts. This issue has caused us to break up and come back several times. We always disagree on this matter. She’s a good lady, loving and a good cook. She’s ambitious, wants us to be rich but through gambling. I’ve seen people lose a lot to gambling, I don’t know why she thinks betting leads to quick success. She said I should keep trying until I win big and then quit and start investing, but what if I never win big? That’s my fear. I can’t do it and we keep arguing. We’ve broken up again cuz she sent some odds the weekend and I didn’t stake them. We may come back as usual, but smh, I feel like not forcing it anymore. I just want to relax and see what happens cuz I really do not want to gamble. Am I making a sound decision!?

Kwaku, I was on my first date with a lady last week. We had been talking for a while, she didn’t want to discuss anything personal unless on a date. We scheduled, she chose the venue and I went to pick her up. We went to a nice restaurant, sat opposite each other while going through the menu. She paused, look at me and said, “I have a way I access a man to see if he’s capable before I enter into anything with them?” I smiled and asked her what way it is. She said, she won’t tell me but I’ll know with time. Then she continued, “I believe that a man who is ready to be in a relationship should show me he can provide, support and spend on me. I’m an independent woman, I don’t need anything from a man but I like men who don’t follow the trend”. I smiled again and said Ok. She signaled the waiter, when he arrived she ordered some rice and grilled chicken and another to be taken away. Then she ordered a smoothie and another to be taken away. The waiter asked to take my order but I said, he should finish with the lady. When the waiter left, she said, “I’m sorry but there’s a lady staying with me, I think I should order something for her, that’s if you don’t mind”. I smiled and said, I don’t. Then she continued, “I’ve seen men with money who are not kind. I don’t expect much from my man but someone who loves me should have my back. That’s all I want”. I smiled and said, okay. Then she asked if I had decided what to order or she should help. I calmly said, help me - I had rice for lunch so I don’t know what to eat. While she was going through the menu, I asked her to excuse me while I grab my laptop from the car. I left and drove straight home. 10-15mins through till about 3 hours, she kept blasting my phone. Then messages came, she said I was a coward, that I had run from the bill etc. I didn’t mind her. She didn’t do anything wrong, I just felt like she had a big mouth. Why do some ladies talk like that? I mean, is that what being an independent woman is? Did I ac

Good evening, Kweku. I have a similar experience with the guy who refused to pay for the food. There was this lady I was seriously chasing after, but she was proving very hard to get. One faithful evening, she called me and said she was at a restaurant and asked me to come over so we could talk. So, like a hopeful gentleman, I went there. To my surprise, when I arrived, she was sitting with two other ladies—and they had already finished eating. She called the waiter and, without hesitation, asked him to bring the bills for me to pay. I’m naturally a shy person, but I honestly don’t know where the sudden vim came from. I calmly told her, “But you asked me to come here so we could talk. You never told me I was coming to pay anyone’s bill. Besides, I didn’t come with money.” We went back and forth for a while. Eventually, she said, “Okay, if it’s because of my friends, then just pay for what I personally ate.” I still said NO. At that point, the embarrassment became too much for her. She called one guy I knew, right there in my presence, and asked him to come to the restaurant. After the call, she looked at me and said, “Please, leave. Because when this guy comes and sees you here, he won’t pay the bill.” I didn’t argue. I simply left the restaurant—with a big smile on my face. That day, I learnt one important lesson: Never assume that because someone invited you to a restaurant, you have automatically been appointed the Finance Minister. 😂😂

Bro please share. My husband is of blessed memory. May he RIP. Before he died, he and I spoke. He had a daughter with another woman before we met, the girl is 24, done with university and doing her service - I think. He didn’t really have a relationship with the girl and her mother because the woman was angry when I was married and she was neglected with her daughter. But my husband took care of them. He sent them money, visited them once a while. His daughter also came to the house once a while. My husband has supported her to where she is now. My husband is not all that rich, but things were okay for us. He told me before his demise that if anything happened, everything he has is for the kids and I. We were married for 20 years and we have 4 children. First two still in the university. He wants us to keep everything, from house, land to car and to money. But there’s one account with Ghc 2,200,000 (2.2million cedis), he wants it all to go to his first daughter and her mother. He told me personally and I promised him I’ll give it to time. That’s what he said he wants to use to compensate them and apologize to her daughter for not really being there for her in person. He wanted her to start her life with it. I’m a good person, and I’ve always said in my heart that if anything really happened, I’ll give the money to them. But now that something has happened, I’m struggling to keep my promise. The money is a lot, and I’m now a single mother of four. I would also need money cuz I want the best for my own kids. At least, her first daughter is done with university. She can start working and even support her mother but none of my own children are done with school. The money he left for the kids and I at bank is about 4million cedis. The one he left for his daughter and the mother is 2.2, isn’t that a cheat? She had only one child for him. I had four. I don’t want to give them the money. Even if I would, maybe just a million. It’s still a lot for two people who didn’

Good morning Kweku I trust you are doing well? Btw I just read a post on your page about a lady who is dating a fat guy and I want to share my story. I am a lady in my late twenties, I am a caterer, an interior designer, an IT girl (I create apps, develop softwares and also do a little bit of hacking ) and also a painter, and just like her I am also dating a fat guy😊. But Kweku before I met my current boyfriend, I had been through 3 relationships and it was nothing good to write home about, it's either I get lied to, I get cheated on or I get betrayed, so I told myself that I will never ever enter any relationship till I met my current person. Honestly I never wanted to pay attention to him because he was fat but he was very patient and stubborn just like me 🤣, like you need to see how hard he tried to woo me🤣, Intially he thought his money can do the talking since he is rich, he started showering me with the gifts, dates and money daily. But he later got to know that I earned more than he does, so he changed his way of approach he started showing up at my house everyday ( I don't how he got to know my house) just to see me and talk even when though he knew i would turn him down, sometimes he would drive me around town just so he can talk to me or get my attention. It got to a time I started embarrassing him just because he was fat and I was bothered about how my kids will look like (even though he is very handsome), what society would say when they see a beautiful girl like me with him and also his performance in the other room( I thought his D was very small🫣) , it went on for 6 good months till he stopped coming, I don't know how but I started missing his presence, then he started invading my thoughts and dreams, my heart was just falling in love with him unknowingly. I started calling him just to talk to him and hear his calm voice but he kept denying my calls,I tried surprising him at his workplace with gifts and food but kept doing some gragra till I als

Bra Kay, I’ve been dating this guy for almost a year now. There’s no time we meet and he doesn’t talk about his ex. He’s always talking about her, sharing experiences they had and telling me how he wanted things to turn out before the lady broke his heart. He’s still stalking the lady, talks about her current posts and stuff she does even though they don’t talk. He even told me once that if things could change, he’d want to date the lady again. The issue is he supported the lady so much, even opened a luxurious cosmetic shop for her. He really loved her and anytime he talks about her with me, he ends up telling me he’s not saying it to hurt me, but it’s cuz she hurt him so much. Someone will ask why I haven’t walked away, it’s because this guy is genuinely a good person. Love aside, despite the pain his ex put him through, he still supports me. Gives me money for everything and is always there by my side, pushing me to become a better version of myself. He’s kind. He’s not demanding, lets you do things at your pace as well. Not only me, everyone around me. He has friends who aren’t talking to him anymore cuz they took loans from him. He’s always giving out, without thinking. I think his generosity is why ladies and his friends take him for granted, but if everything works out well, I’ll love to marry him. He has a long list of people he genuinely helped or gave loans who never paid back but he’s still like that. This worries me, cuz I want him to stop and start investing in himself. I’ve tried but he says he’s kind because his father taught him so. I think there’s something psychological here and I want to help him to see a therapist so he would know when to do good. Can you please recommend a therapist?🙏